Standards and Guidelines

Aftershock Community Standards

What this group is:

* Safe * Confidential * Judgment-free zone * Authentic communication * Honest * Personal accountability * Real Issues * No husband or men bashing * No gossip * No profanity *

Please do:

* Treat others online as you would treat them face-to-face over a cup of coffee or tea. * Be tolerant towards others’ viewpoints * respectfully disagree when opinions do not align with yours * Respect the privacy and personal information of other members * Communicate with courtesy and respect * Use messaging and email responsibly

Please do not:

Make personal attacks on other community members. Use defamatory remarks or make false statements against others. Post prejudiced comments. Bully or make inflammatory remarks to other community members Use messaging, email, personal contact information made available through this membership—including names, mailing addresses, phone numbers, email addresses, social media accounts, or member information—for employment information, advocacy, promotional, or political purposes. Solicit your fellow community members for business or personal services, fundraising, cold-calling of any kind, mass-mailings, or broadcast emails.

Community protection:

We will take action when someone violates these guidelines. This may include giving someone a warning or revoking certain privileges or accounts entirely. We request that all community members report behavior that violates our guidelines to

Aftershock Community Guidelines: 

In this community, we encourage, support, and learn together with grace, empathy, and confidentiality. 

  1. This is a safe community intended to help people grow. (Please do not post any derogatory or hurtful comments.)
  2. If you are a new member, please introduce yourself with whatever information you feel comfortable sharing. (optional)
  3. Invite women friends who you think would benefit from the group. (Send me an email with their name, and I will contact them.)
  4. Call out posts (request for encouragement, advice, or input). Share your questions and struggles. Please respond to others with sound biblical advice. It’s always appropriate to post a Bible verse(s) you believe applies to the situation or let another member know you uphold them in prayer. (If a member’s need misaligns with the group’s intent, I will personally reach out for help or clarification.)
  5. Commenting on member requests. Build community on this page by kindly supporting others. Be encouraging and supportive in your comments. 
  6. You may find an image/quote/statement you wish to share. Simply message me and I will let you know when and if you may post.  
  7. This is not a political forum. (Absolutely no political posts.)
  8. Kirsten’s team reserves the right to remove anything that does not align with these guidelines. Should we take that action, we will privately message you with the reason why we removed the post.